Do you need to be more consistent?

Jan 31, 2023 | Tip for a Terrific Tuesday

As we enter into the new year, I want you to think about the word consistent. What does it mean to be consistent? It means to act or do things in the same way. Over time, when we think about our goals, often we know how to do what we want to do and we know what we want to achieve, but we often fall short because we are not consistent. We don’t continue to do the things that work the same way over time so that we can gain momentum.

When we are consistent, we have continuity. We don’t show the variation of contraindications to the goals that we want to achieve. Sometimes consistency can help us to eliminate worries because we are doing it the right way and we usually will gain momentum and then can accomplish what we want to accomplish. Consistency is important. Whether we want to achieve a better relationship, whether we want better work performance or school performance, we know what we want and often we know how to do it.

If we want to achieve health goals, we know that exercising consistently is important. We know that eating right consistently is important. We know that if we have high blood pressure, cholesterol problems, we have to take our medications consistently every other day want work. So consistency matters whether you’re trying to achieve financial goals, career goals, goals in your schools, goals at work, or goals in your health.

It is with consistency that will make the difference as we move forward. So have you ever considered you know what you want, you know when you want it, but have you examined what’s holding you back? And it may come down to the consistency is what you are lacking.

You want it to lose weight, but you didn’t eat right, but twice a week rather than every day. Or you wanted to exercise but you didn’t exercise, but twice a week rather than most days of the week.

So let’s examine our consistency this year as we strive to reach our goals. Here are three things I want you to remember. As you think about becoming more consistent, isolate one goal. And remember that developing consistency doesn’t happen overnight.

Focus on incremental improvement and fight your emotion. And let’s remember that whatever your failures were last year, leave them in last year.
Leave your disappointments and setbacks to last year and let’s move forward this year. Forgive yourself for your failures and disappointments and focus on being
consistent with your goals this year.

Write down your goals. Start doing it today and be consistent. And I believe that this time next year when you evaluate where you are now and where you want to be, you would have moved forward. 

Let consistency lead you in this new year.

Tips to Overcome Adversity

It's important to gain skills to overcome adversity. In the past 25 - 30 years that I've studied human behavior, I've learned that there are 2 ways that people respond when they have a roadblock or a hurdle as it relates to setting goals. Either they NAP, N-A-P, or...

The 4 P’s to Master Networking

A lot of people think of networking as a time when you're eating cheese and drinking a little wine or drinking a soda. But this is an important time when you lay the foundation for long term business relationships. I often say, when you're at that networking event,...

Start With What You Can Do For the Client

If you really want to have a successful business, when you enter into that business relationship, instead of focusing on what you can get from the customer, enter into it asking, “What can I do for you?” When you think about how you can serve your customer, serve your...

Accept No Limitations

Have you ever had a bad week and you just didn't know how you were going to get everything done and you just didn't know what to do? Well, this is what I call the third step in the Bragg Factor®, which is called accept no limitation. The only thing that's stopping you...

Positive Self Talk

Positive self talk is more important than you might realize. If you're struggling with reaching your goals, have you evaluated what you're saying to yourself? There is great value in self talk. When you get up in the morning, what are you saying to yourself? If you do...

How to Unlock Your Potential: The Power of Being Intentional About Your Personal Growth

Today I want to talk about the value of being intentional about your personal growth and development. You know, oftentimes when we reach certain milestones, we feel like that gives us permission to stop learning. But we need to stay committed to learning and personal...

Eliminate Excuses: Unlock Your Path to Success

Last week, I outlined seven steps to get past the things that are holding you back, and I said that this month, we are going to stop that madness. So today, we're going to talk about step one: making excuses. Let's commit to making no more excuses. Have you ever...

Give Gratitude: Tips to Live Longer and Happier

I'm wishing and hoping that you have a terrific Tuesday. As we enter into Thanksgiving time, I want you to take time to tell your loved ones, your friends, and your staff, how grateful you are for them. This is a time when we should think about gratitude. Even if we...

Beyoncé: The Power of Never Giving Up!

Like many of you, I watched the Grammys the other night and watched Beyoncé finally win Album of the Year. She had won many other Grammys in her life, but had never won Album of the Year. But she is known for her resilience, and she kept pushing forward. So, what...

Four tips to reach your goals in record time

Are you having trouble reaching your goals? Well, I have four questions that I want to give you that are going to give you tips to help you reach your goals in record time. The first question is, what is your goal? You need to define what it is you want. What is the...

What Is The Invisible Line You Need To Cross To Reach Your Goals?

Why did I choose Harriet Tubman? I admire her because she freed herself when she crossed that line, but she wasn't selfish. She brought others with her, and she went across that line nineteen times to bring others with her. That lesson prepared me to be able to cross...

Secret For A Winning Morning Routine: Put The Cell Phone On HOLD — Not Your Goals

Morning routines are important. Maybe you're into meditation, maybe you're into tai chi, maybe you exercise, maybe you listen to music —  whatever you like to do, I want us all to start our day off with confidence. And for me, that means that I don't look at my cell...

No more excuses!

No more excuses! Last week, I outlined 7 things that were holding you back, and today, we're gonna talk about step 1, making excuses. Have you ever wondered why some people are more successful than others? Well, interesting, most of us started out at the same place in...

Sending You Much Gratitude

I want you to know that I sincerely appreciate you following my blog over the past year. And during this season of gratitude, I wanted to take the time to express my appreciation to each of you for following my tips. I look forward to having you commenting throughout...

Today’s Inspiration – Dr. Mae Jemison

As we continue to celebrate Black History Month, I want to highlight Mae Jemison. I am very excited that a couple weeks ago, I had the honor and pleasure of meeting Dr. Mae Jemison. Mae Jemison is a physician and scientist who in 1992 became the first black woman...

Congrats to Coach Dawn Staley and Caitlin Clark:Women’s Basketball

I'd like to say congrats to Coach Staley and Caitlin Clark. Like many of you recently, I know you watched the 2024 women's national basketball tournament. And did you know that more people watch that game than in any professional sports men or females since 2019? It...

Exercise to Boost Confidence

We’ve talked about it before, but I want to talk about it again — the importance of giving yourself positive self-talk. I just don’t tell you this just to tell you. I’m telling you this because this simple exercise can help to boost your self-confidence and your...

The Mindset of a Champion

Like many of you, I watched the Olympics. And from this, I wondered, what are the Olympians' mindsets that help them reach their goals? It is obvious that they are able to commit to a long term goal. We see them at the peak of their sport. We don't realize until we...

What does B-R-A-G-G stand for?

In my best-selling book, How to Create Your Brag Book for a Competitive Job Market, I teach you the importance of bragging. A lot of people think about bragging as being negative, but I want you to remember that Bragg using my name, B R A G G, is a five letter word,...