What Does It Take To Have Good Relationships?

Nov 21, 2023 | Tip for a Terrific Tuesday

As we enter into the holiday season, I want you to take out your calendar and just like we write down our goals for our careers and other things at work, make sure that you put time on your calendar to spend time with your family and your friends.

Holidays can be stressful and chaotic, and so as you spend time with your family members, remember this good relationship never work if you have to be right all the time.

In fact, if you are right all the time, it can be the thing that spoils a relationship. So if there’s someone who’s comes over to your home and you know that they have to be right all the time, lean into loving them rather than correcting them so that you can have a good holiday season.

Today’s Inspiration – Dr. Mae Jemison

As we continue to celebrate Black History Month, I want to highlight Mae Jemison. I am very excited that a couple weeks ago, I had the honor and pleasure of meeting Dr. Mae Jemison. Mae Jemison is a physician and scientist who in 1992 became the first black woman...

The 30-Second Morning Habit That Changes Everything

It is important to be successful, to wake up in the morning with confidence. When I get up in the morning, one of the first things I do is look in the mirror and think about my goals for that day. I close my eyes and visualize accomplishing those goals, focusing only...

What is the difference between a task and a goal?

tI want us to get clear on two terms, a task versus what is a goal. A task is something that simply advances our life. It's what we write down each day. A to-do list. We need to go to the grocery store, pick up the children at three o'clock, ect. Those are tasks and...

Tell Your Loved Ones How Much You Care

As we enter the Thanksgiving holiday season, remember to take time to show gratitude to those who you love. When is the last time you actually told your loved one, how much they mean to you? How much you appreciate them? Relationships are at the heart of every...

How to Unlock Your Potential: The Power of Being Intentional About Your Personal Growth

Today I want to talk about the value of being intentional about your personal growth and development. You know, oftentimes when we reach certain milestones, we feel like that gives us permission to stop learning. But we need to stay committed to learning and personal...

Eliminate Excuses: Unlock Your Path to Success

Last week, I outlined seven steps to get past the things that are holding you back, and I said that this month, we are going to stop that madness. So today, we're going to talk about step one: making excuses. Let's commit to making no more excuses. Have you ever...

How to Reach Your Goals? A 90 Day Strategy

As we get ready in this new year, over the next 90 days, I want you to ask yourself 4 questions each day. What is my goal? What is the time frame to meet that goal? But most importantly, what's holding you back? When you think about what's holding you back, write down...

How to get started practicing confidence

SEAN: "Now you as an entrepreneur and again, as a physician, I mean, very, very impressive. What, you know, tell me, let's, let's go through the book because they love you. They're gonna buy the book anyway, so you can't give enough away, always tell authors like...

What to do when life gets you down

Often I may ask, what do you do when life just gets you down? Well, that happens to all of us. And what I have found, and what I coach others to do, is to step away from that situation for a while and give yourself a chance to have a fresh perspective. Sometimes it's...

Constantly Acknowledge Your Wins

All of us have had setbacks and disappointments and some failures in our life. When we were a child, sometimes when we did things that weren’t right, they were met with great emotional intensity when we made an error or mistake, more so than some of our successes. As...

Do you have a mentor or coach?

Do you have a mentor, or a coach? Have you ever wondered how you could maximize that relationship? Three things to remember - First, prepare before you meet with them. Read their book if they've written a book or review their website so that you have an understanding...

Show Gratitude Today

I hope that you had a wonderful holiday with your family and your friends. I want you to continue to focus on gratitude because we know that studies have shown that people who show gratitude are more successful, happier, and healthier. So embrace your family and...

How Can I Become a Well-Leader? Key Principles for Professional and Personal Growth

Why did I choose Harriet Tubman? I admire her because she freed herself when she crossed that line, but she wasn't selfish. She brought others with her, and she went across that line nineteen times to bring others with her. That lesson prepared me to be able to cross...

Consistency is the key to reaching your goals

Excited to Speak at Riverside Health System Ladies Leadership Night On The Well-Leader

Last week, I was excited to be the keynote speaker for Riverside's Ladies Leadership Night. We talked about the well-leader and how the well-leader needs to be well spoken, well-respected, and well-remembered. And she can accomplish this by developing and creating a...

Strategies To Stop Holding Yourself Back

Today I want to talk to you about some strategies on how to stop holding yourself back. When I wrote my bestselling book on Dreams Without Goals or Nightmares, as you know, there are four questions you have to ask yourself whenever you're thinking about a goal. My...

Celebrate Your Wins!!! A Strategy to Build Confidence

All of us have had setbacks, disappointments, and some failures in our lives. When we were children, sometimes when we made an error or mistake, we were met with great emotional intensity, more so than with some of our successes. As a result, the brain most easily...

What To Do When You Are Defeated

Whenever we get defeated in a competition or in any other way, we feel disappointed. And we feel like we are surrounded by darkness, and sometimes we lose hope. But I want you to know that it is in darkness that we can shine our light. Have you ever noticed that when...

Take Time to Show Gratitude to Family and Friends

I hope that you spent time this weekend celebrating Memorial Day with your family and your friends. And that you took time to be grateful for those who have served this country that allows us to have the Freedoms that we have. With all of the tragedies that we've had...

How to Motivate Yourself to Change

Often I'm asked, "How do you motivate yourself to make changes?" Well, you need to write down your goals. And when you write them down, break them down into smaller chunks because that makes it easier to achieve the goals. And it is important to celebrate your small...