Train Your Brain to Feel Confident — Doctor Explains “Behave As If”

The third step in TheBraggFactor® is A - Accept No Limitation. The only thing stopping you from reaching your goals are your limits. You have to accept no limitations and ask questions. Everyone would benefit from a coach, mentor, or someone who can guide you. Learn...

All of us have had setbacks, disappointments, and some failures in our lives. When we were children, sometimes when we made an error or mistake, we were met with great emotional intensity, more so than with some of our successes. As a result, the brain most easily...

Why did I choose Harriet Tubman? I admire her because she freed herself when she crossed that line, but she wasn't selfish. She brought others with her, and she went across that line nineteen times to bring others with her. That lesson prepared me to be able to cross...

Today I want to talk about the value of being intentional about your personal growth and development. You know, oftentimes when we reach certain milestones, we feel like that gives us permission to stop learning. But we need to stay committed to learning and personal...

Last week, I outlined seven steps to get past the things that are holding you back, and I said that this month, we are going to stop that madness. So today, we're going to talk about step one: making excuses. Let's commit to making no more excuses. Have you ever...

I want to give you a tip today on how you can have a terrific Tuesday. We've been talking about goals, and I want you to know that, first of all, you're worthy of achieving your goals. You deserve to be successful. I've talked about focusing on what's holding you...

I hope you had a wonderful time with your family during the holidays. Now, as we end the year, I want you to write down three things that you know are good about you. Practice some self-love, and meditate on these three things. Keep looking at them over the next few...

As we enter into the holiday season, I want you to take out your calendar and just like we write down our goals for our careers and other things at work, make sure that you put time on your calendar to spend time with your family and your friends. Holidays can be...

I'm excited today to be at the Hampton Roads Chamber of Commerce, talking about my new book, Dreams Without Goals Are Nightmares: How to Use the Bragg Factor to Reach Your Goals in Record Time. You know, it is important for you to reach your goals in record time to...

We’ve talked about it before, but I want to talk about it again — the importance of giving yourself positive self-talk. I just don’t tell you this just to tell you. I’m telling you this because this simple exercise can help to boost your self-confidence and your...

As we get ready in this new year, over the next 90 days, I want you to ask yourself 4 questions each day. What is my goal? What is the time frame to meet that goal? But most importantly, what's holding you back? When you think about what's holding you back, write down...

As we enter the Thanksgiving holiday season, remember to take time to show gratitude to those who you love. When is the last time you actually told your loved one, how much they mean to you? How much you appreciate them? Relationships are at the heart of every...

Life can be difficult, so we have to learn how to deal with life challenges and learn to train ourselves to think positive. How do we do that? There are five things we can do. First, we have to reframe negative thoughts. Second, practice gratitude.You can keep a...

Are you reaching your goals? What are you doing in the morning when you wake up? I've told you before that it's important to look in that mirror in the morning, to believe in the person that you see, and to tell that person that you can accomplish your goals. Write...

Did you know what successful people do every day? Let me give you three tips. They wake up early every morning. Secondly, they read a lot. Research says they read about 30 minutes every day. Warren Buffet, a self-made billionaire says that reading has been the most...

Everything must start with us and sometimes as entrepreneurs, we put ourselves at the back of the line and we need to put ourselves at the front as it relates to our health. There can't be a business without a healthy you, there can't be a good thriving mission...

We often waste time worrying about what others think of us. But we really need to concentrate on who we want to be. I encourage you to follow the words of Dolly Parton who said, "Find out who you are and do it on purpose." When you do you every day, you will instill...

It's important to gain skills to overcome adversity. In the past 25 - 30 years that I've studied human behavior, I've learned that there are 2 ways that people respond when they have a roadblock or a hurdle as it relates to setting goals. Either they NAP, N-A-P, or...

A lot of people think of networking as a time when you're eating cheese and drinking a little wine or drinking a soda. But this is an important time when you lay the foundation for long term business relationships. I often say, when you're at that networking event,...

Our past failures and disappointments can sometimes lead to self doubt. So today I want to share with you 5 tips to help you to reduce self doubt. First, I wanna refer you to a previous blog post where I discussed the importance of daily positive self talk. Secondly,...